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February 2024

Successful vs. Unsuccessful People

Hello,

It’s often easy to distinguish those who are successful vs. those who aren’t—regardless of how you define it—but it’s not always easy to articulate exactly why. Here are some of those reasons.


Successful People:

  • Want others to succeed too

  • Adapt to and welcome change

  • Share and discuss ideas

  • Take responsibility for failures

  • Never stop learning

  • Compliment others

  • Forgive people

Unsuccessful People:

  • Want others to fail

  • Are scared of change

  • Gossip and share rumors

  • Blame others for mistakes

  • Think they know everything

  • Criticize others

  • Hold grudges


Embracing these “success traits” can pave the way for personal and professional growth. Foster a mindset that encourages adaptability, continuous learning, and positivity for others, you can navigate challenges more effectively and create a path towards long-term success.

Brian



Stuff of the Month

Mind

Body

Dad

The Growth Kit (Podcast)

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From One Year Ago


Best Of The Month

Here are some of my favorite things of the month.

Quote

"All of Western medicine is built on getting rid of pain, which is not the same as healing. Healing is actually the capacity to hold pain."

-Gabor Mate

 

Podcast

Do Kids Need More Independence? from No Stupid Questions

Book

Excellent Advice For Living by Kevin Kelly

Product

The Apollo Neuro uses gentle vibrations, called Apollo Vibes™, to send signals to your nervous system, mimicking the calming touch of a loved one. Backed by science, it boasts impressive results: 73% of users report feeling calmer, 70% experience improved sleep quality, and 63% find it helps them focus better.

Worn on your wrist, ankle, or clipped to your clothing, the Apollo Neuro provides specific vibrations for you to choose from, like "Unwind" after a long day or "Focus" before tackling a task.

I was skeptical at first but I’ve been using it on my way to and from work and syncing it with my meditations and breathwork practice and I am now a believer.


Things I’ve Learned

Mind

Highest Risk Factors for Young Onset Dementia

In this cohort study of over 356,000 participants from the UK Biobank, researchers looked at modifiable and nonmodifiable risk factors for diagnosing dementia in middle adulthood (before 65 years old). 

Here are the 15 risks most heavily correlated with Young Onset Dementia:

  • Lower formal education

  • Lower socioeconomic status

  • Carrying 2 APOE4 genes

  • No alcohol use*

  • Alcohol use disorder

  • Social isolation

  • Vitamin D deficiency

  • High C-reactive protein levels

  • Lower handgrip strength

  • Hearing impairment*

  • Orthostatic hypotension*

  • Stroke

  • Diabetes

  • Heart disease

  • Depression

Many of these seem obvious even though many people still chalk up their risk of dementia to it "running in the family."  The ones with the * were most interesting and surprising to me. 

We Are Mirrors

Source

52 Things I Learned in 2023

A great list from Kent Hendricks called 52 Things I Learned in 2023. Here are some of my favorites:

  • One reason the United States didn’t adopt the metric system was because the ship crossing the Atlantic from France carrying a standard kilogram—yes, a real physical object—requested by Thomas Jefferson in 1793 was blown off course into the Caribbean and captured by pirates

  • Santa’s reindeer are all female. Male reindeer don’t start growing antlers until February, so any reindeer with antlers hauling goods on Christmas Eve wouldn’t be male.

  • Children who were injured from a fall before the age of nine are less likely to be scared of heights when they get older.

  • Tic Tacs are labeled as sugar-free even though they are 94% sugar. As long as there’s less than half a gram of sugar, the FDA permits products to be labeled sugar-free. Each Tic Tac has 0.49 grams of sugar.

  • When women talk to each other, they face each other. But when men talk to each other, they stand at an average angle of 120 degrees. When men face each other while talking, it’s because they’re about to fight.

Life Stats

Plug your birthday into Life Stats to find out some wild info that has happened since you were born. Here are some stats since my birthday in 1986:

  • You've spent 4,601 days of your life asleep.

  • The moon is slowly moving away. It's 144 cm further away than when you were born.

  • You're one of the lucky ones. 7% of people born in 1986 didn't make it to 2024.

  • The S&P 500 is up 2,204% in your lifetime.

Hat tip to Bob P. for the recommendation.

Body

Bidirectional Influences For Sleep & Diet

Andrew Huberman

Supplement Caution

A great read Most Supplements Don’t Work. But That’s Not the Worst Part. Here’s an excerpt:

"Whenever I see someone touting the merits of, say, neuroscientist and podcaster Andrew Huberman’s $370 supplement stack, I’m tempted to go full PubMed on them. You really think the herbal extract Fadogia agrestis is going to boost your “healthspan and muscle performance” based on an obscure study of male albino rats published by the Asian Journal of Andrology back in 2005? A grand total of zero human trials is what Huberman means by a “robust foundation of science”?

Plastics In Products

Examine.com

Curcumin Reduces Glucose Levels

I recently got hold of a continuous glucose monitor (CGM) that I’m excited to try out to find out what increases and decreases my glucose levels.

This study surprised me with the impact curcumin has on these levels. After analyzing 59 studies, it found that turmeric/curcumin can significantly reduce fasting blood sugar by 4.60 mg/dl, lower fasting insulin by 0.87 μIU/ml, decrease hemoglobin A1c (HbA1c) by 0.32%, and improve insulin resistance (HOMA-IR) by 0.33.

Already incorporating curcumin into my routine, I'm intrigued to observe and share how this supplement impacts my own glucose levels through the use of a CGM. Stay tuned for updates on my anecdotal experiment.

Dad

Concerns With Petroleum Jelly

Vaseline (a.k.a. petroleum jelly), a staple in many medicine cabinets for over 150 years, has been used to address various skin concerns. However, recent scientific insights highlight four compelling reasons to reconsider its use.

  1. Petroleum jelly is derived from fossil fuels, contributing to ecological concerns associated with oil drilling.

  2. It may contain carcinogenic compounds, with potential health risks.

  3. Its occlusive nature creates a near-impenetrable barrier on the skin, hindering breathability and, in some cases, exacerbating skin issues.

  4. Petroleum jelly lacks skin-nourishing properties and can disrupt the skin's natural moisture production.

Check out the link for safer alternatives.

Corporal Punishment Bans = Less Fighting

This ecological study, involving 88 countries and 403,604 adolescents, aimed to explore the relationship between corporal punishment bans and youth violence on an international scale. The study found that countries with full bans on corporal punishment, both in schools and at home, had lower rates of youth violence.

Kids Screen Time Linked to ADHD & Autism?

Children under the age of two exposed to higher screen time were more likely to exhibit behaviors like "sensation seeking," "sensation avoiding," and "low registration" by 33 months, according to a study led by Dr. Karen Heffler at Drexel. The research, analyzing data from 1,471 children, suggests a connection between early screen time and sensory-related behaviors, prompting further investigation into the impact on conditions like autism spectrum disorder.

"The findings were quite revealing:

  1. At 12 months, any screen exposure was linked to a 105% greater likelihood of “high” sensory behaviors related to low registration at 33 months.

  2. At 18 months, each additional hour of daily screen time increased the odds of “high” sensory behaviors related to sensation avoiding and low registration by 23%.

  3. By 24 months, each additional hour of screen time was associated with a 20% increased odds of “high” sensation seeking, sensory sensitivity, and sensation avoiding behaviors at 33 months."


What’s something that you learned this month?